Yassy’s note: Liam’s first year; Day 137- Day 141

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 137..

Liam was wearing terry material’s raccoon clothe but I noticed that he has got a bit of nasal voice and sneeze/cough here and there so,changed him into doggy paw fleece clothe.

I was a little worried if it would overheat him,but no red face, no hot back so,I think he is ok with fleece material for now.

I usually give milk and then, have conversation time with him and then, have exercise time (he does tummy time, practice rolling over or sit up,tracking object with eyes etc..) and I enjoy the ground time with him very much.

Lately, he gives me real real big smile here and there to me and, his smile melt my heart,lol.

Liam Day 137.. in Dog paw print clothe..

Day 138…

Last night,I did skype with my parents plus my grandmother who live in Japan and,when we started talking and just about picking Liam up to show him, Liam fell asleep in his bassinet and I apologize to them.

It was because they are always looking forward to see him on the screen and loves to entertain (at least trying to) through the screen.

Well, right after the skype is over, Liam woke up crying for a diaper change.

So,I told him he missed his grandparents by a second. I was not sure if I could catch my parents again with skype but I called back and they replied so they could get to see how big Liam got.

During the skype time Liam usually feeling comfy in my arms and simply staring at the screen with curious eyes but last night, he talked a bit to them. It was my parents’ first experience to hear his voice on live except via video I sometimes send them.

My mother told me that my sister keeps diary for every 3 kids;writing about when each kid become able to do thing like roll over etc.. and she makes her kids to keep diary too (well, 2 kids out of the 3 kids are still young so they are not writing any diary yet but the oldest one is keeping diary like her mother).

My mother mentioned that letting a kid to write what happen each day as diary is good thing to look back good days but also it is a great practice for kids to learn letters.

I agree with that and I remembered that my mother and I exchanged diary everyday and I remember how anxious I was to read her replies and comments.

My sister is following her footstep I think and I would like to do the same.

Talking of, I remember that when we were junior high school student, we student had a notebook given by the school and we wrote each subjects’ schedule and any important note to remember and on the very bottom, there were 5 line empty section to fill for the daily diary.Our teacher asked students to write what happen each day and submit it to her and she returns it to us with comments.

Then, I remember that I was told by this teacher that if I keep the same grade with English as is,then, I have risk of not getting into the high school. So,she recommended to correspondence with penpals (good to practice writing English,good to learn new words and phrases) .

Well,I started writing letters in English to them and I really loved communicating with people all over the world in English so, I then started using that 5 line area on the notebook to write the daily diary in English and submitted it to the teacher.

The teacher was surprised but helped me learn better grammar,more words and phrases and it was such a helpful way to learn the English besides English classes.

I guess I was lucky one too considering that the teacher who was in charge of our class was English class teacher.

I was horrible in English, but I ended up getting teacher’s license for English eligible for junior high school class and high school class and,worked at places that require English skill.

My mother’s talk of diary reminded me of my old student year memories.

Day 141…

This book gets crinkle sound and he likes to nom the edge of the book too.It got no word written as well so,I usually make up the story and every time slightly different stories:-)

Liam day 141.. reading book…

Stay tuned for more Liam story….

May 30, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note:Liam’s first year: Day 130 – Day 137

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 132..

Liam grabbed my finger and gripped very tight and then brought my finger to his chin,while he was sucking his thumb.

Yes, he wanted to suck my finger as well.He simply could not decide which one was tastier,lol..

Liam Day 132 old.. grabbing my finger and sucking his thumb..

I did skype with my family last night and they liked watching how Liam reacts to them but I really wish they could physically touch him,hold him and interact with him real time face to face…without screen.

Day 133…

Went to pediatrician today.Liam is growing nicely.

He was 11lb 15 oz, 24″ tall,and head size was 38″. He got 4 months checkup and got shot and on the way home, we (me and my husband) both got flu shot so,today was shot day for all of us.

Vaccine was my very very first time here in the states so,I was not sure how it would be but it was all right.

Back in Japan, since baby time to grown up,I got shot but I noticed that American doctor tends to give you shot 90 degree angle with long needle one while Japanese one gives (although some without long needle gets given 90 degree but most are 45 degree angle) patient more like 45 degree angle so,I was not sure what it will be like.I survived.

I was told I was the one of those person that doctor has hard time finding good muscle because mine is small.

Day 137..

I am thinking that maybe next month, Liam could go meet Santa at the mall for picture. First winter and very first experience with Santa.I wonder what he thinks.. Little Liam found his favorite toy and He likes to grabs it and bring it to his mouth and nibble. He says “It no milk bottle!”,lol

Liam Day 137.. with funky shape toy..

Stay tuned for more Liam story.

Apr 29, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note: Liam’s first year: Day 124- Day 129

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 124..

Liam had long long breast feeding time again. 39 minutes total!!

I was really thinking that he would probably not going to take any more milk via bottle which we are supposed to give after direct breast feeding to ensure he is getting some.

Well, after fell asleep a bit with breast feeding time, he took all 90 ml supplemental breast milk in the bottle!

He slept about 4 hours since,then had another milk time and currently sleeping like am angel.

I did skype with my parents last night and Liam was sleeping but just about when we were to say “finish,log out”,he woke up and he met his Japanese grandfather/grandmother over skype again.

I saw my grandmother too and they liked how well Liam is growing and they cannot wait to see him all the time.He is cutie pie,they say and I enjoy watching how they interact with Liam over the skype.

It is a shame they cannot come whenever they want to… 14 hours flight away is so far!

I know my father was originally planning to come visit us in October but he had bad intuition (he kind of felt something not right and he was debating if coming or not coming long time) and he decided not to come. However, he told me that he will be coming over in spring;April or May next year when he told me he would not come in October.

I heard my parents decided to go to hot spring (onsen) for relaxation to celebrate their 40th wed anniversary.I told them have a nice trip and enjoy!

Day 125..

Liam was fed by my husband a second ago and, my husband called me and said “Look!”

This is what I saw.

Yes,Liam is a big boy now and can drink milk on his own,he says:-)

Liam Day 125 drinking milk on his own ..

Day 126..

His feeding number in a day got decreased so, I upped the amount of milk in the bottle.

Since the bottle in the picture is almost full when one feeding worth of milk inside,he has graduated from this bottle yesterday and now using medium sized bottle (it was 8 oz bottle). He is taking 150-160ml milk each feeding now:-)

He sleeps quite long during the night.He slept 11 hours last night.

Day 127..

After started giving Liam tummy massage;1 to prevent constipation, 2 to keep things moving and if any burps left in tummy,he let it out from rear…his bowel movement is much more regulated and we can guess which day he would poop.

Today was that day.

Sure enough he did one before grocery shopping (we could do diaper change before leaving) but I saw his red face with straining with sound…and smell…

I think he is working on number 2 poop today…

I will give him more time and then change his diaper.

I was warming up the milk but I will let him finish his business first.

If you have a baby to care for, I recommend to do the tummy massage after every milk time.

Liam likes massage time too!

Day 129..

The little prince is sleeping peacefully and, I am not happy that the water company is working on the pipe and doing flushing thing which result in twinkle water so it means, no laundry.I hope it gets done by dinner time so I can cook and do laundry and all other thing. He killed 2 sheets, 2 clothes today..

Liam is up from nap but not crying at all.Just looking around.He saw me and started flapping arms and legs.

I said to him “O-ha-yo-u. (Good morning in English)” with bit of tone;the same tone I used to tell to my belly.He smiled a bit and flapped arms and legs even more.

Does he remember the words I used to tell him each and every day??Hmm…..

More Liam story continues.Stay tuned.

Apr 08, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note:Liam’s first year Day 120 – Day 123

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 120..

I remember that NICU nurse once told us that Liam is not a handful guy and when he cries,it is usually diaper or food and he is not as fussy as other babies and easy to handle.

I do not know if other babies at the same age do not sleep as long as Liam does.

However, he always was/has been a good sleeper.

Day 121..

Liam Day 121… 7 am morning..

I am pretty sure I put him on bed straight but he moved his head 90 degree to the left and he was using the pocket as leg rest,lol.

When you look back the day old Liam, I can see how big he became and has grown so much!

Day 122..

When I did skype the other day,with my parents in Japan,they said that Liam is very fortunate to have such a wonderful family members around him;me,my husband,and in-law family.

The best compliment that I got from my father was that, not only Liam is growing physically but I am growing inside too.

Also, he said I am looking more mother-figure each day.I am so happy to hear that.

Day 123..

Found an interesting person to discuss topic with.

I found him through youtube and he is from the states,living in Japan, and he does podcast thing,talking about cultural difference between USA and Japan.

Since he has been experiencing both cultures and raised his daughter, I was interested to hear his view on supplementation on breastfeeding etc.. I was not sure if I get a reply or not but I did.

He told me that Japan in general tries to take less aggressive, more holistic approaches; while the US favors more aggressive intervention.

He said he weaned his daughter to mugicha;wheat tea, as opposed to fruit juice like Apple juice many parents might wean their babies to here in USA.

He also wrote to me that Japanese culture enjoys a healthy diet and the longest life span in the world (Japanese women live longest:), so he says our culture’s track record speaks for itself.

Reading that,I thought he was right about diet thing because our dishes tend to be much less fat;typical USA dishes for dinner for example has cream,cheese,butter a lot of times and plate is different; ours is a little bit of meat, and cooked with lots of vegetables while American plate is more of meat as star in the plate.

Plus amount of food served at the restaurant is very different and we do not have doggy bag in Japan;restaurants there do not allow you to bring food home.

Then, typical American breakfast starts with sugary, high fat thing like sausage,pancakes, bacon,hashed brown,muffin etc.. while our typical breakfast is what my husband described as “smaller portion of dinner plate” and it is more savory and we eat rice,side dishes, and fruits for the breakfast although now and then, we have toast with a cup of tea or coffee along with salad and/or side dishes western style Japanese breakfast).

Anyway,I was curious how they raised his daughter in Japan especially I was curious about supplementation when breastfeeding.

He wrote that his daughter never took vitamin D supplements, and she never vaccinated for rota-virus because they don’t do that in Japan (they do in the USA).

Vaccination variety is one thing I was surprised to know how many shots were given to kids here in USA and how less in Japan.

I find kids here get more shot than us in Japan but then, America is big country with many immigrants living inside and I wonder people get vaccinated more just because kids here would be exposed to more variety of virus than us kids in Japan .

Another cultural difference I found between USA and Japan is that back home in Japan, when people get cold especially during the cold months, they wear mask so they would not pass the virus to others when they cough.

Hospital guides you to cover your mouth with upper arm but us in Japan gets instruction such as cover your mouth when cough with two hands and wear mask if you cough badly so virus would not get passed to others.

Also, during the cold mouth, we are encouraged to hand wash often and gargling especially when you were out and back to home.

You would probably see more people wearing mask during flu season there.We are proactive for cold and we gargle every time you come into the house and also wash hands too.That is something schools teach kids to do for preventing cold.

As for Liam today…

When I breastfed Liam this morning,he was on me for… 39 minutes (total)!! and he did not need any guide to the breast.He found the spot on his own and started sucking,lol.I was not even ready yet.

At the end, he was laying on side,curling up a leg a bit with his hands over his eyes and started Zzzzz and,when I tried to give supplemental milk (breast milk in the bottle) as par pediatrician recommendation, he woke up wide and finished off 90ml milk via bottle. But when burping times,he was so not liking the bottle been taken out to burp and cried loud a bit.Then soon get quiet when bottle gets back to him.

I do not know what I am eating that makes him go nuts that much, but I am glad he likes the milk from me.

I had fresh fruit (various kind of fruit;blueberry,pomegranate,pineapple,cantaloupe etc..) with drop of plain yogurt,drizzled with honey as my breakfast dessert after breakfast meal.I wonder that made it super tasty milk,lol.

He is sleeping like an angel…

He definitely likes breast milk better than formula. I read in Japanese e-magazine before that depending on what you eat that day, the taste of the milk changes each time.

It is kind of interesting to think that he is eating the same thing but he gets various kinds of taste with it.

It was the day that made me think of more of our cultural difference.

Stay tuned for more Liam story..


Mar 26, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note:Liam’s first year:Day 114 – Day 120

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 114

In the last entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam’s first year, Day 109- Day 114”, I wrote that in Japan, pediatrician does not say anything about supplementing breast milk even if babies were fed exclusively breast milk just like my younger sister.

Here in USA, supplementing Vit D to breast milk if you feed your baby more breast milk.

I know why pediatrician says to give Vit D because American academy of pediatric recommends it, but breast milk tastes different, and nutrient will be different from one person to the other depending on what they eat.

Therefore, I do not know if AAP people recommends Vit D based on typical American diet for moms.

In Japan, people eat a lot of fish, egg etc and go outside to play more than here in the states,I think, and I wonder breast milk nutrient content on typical Japanese diet has more D,thus the moms there do not give supplement to babies nor pediatricians there do not say anything about it either.

I get nervous about Vit D thing because it is fat soluble vitamin and,it means that when body did not use that D,then, whatever left will stay in the body as opposed to pee out like Vit C,for example.

You can see how much of Vit D you give to babies, how much of prenatal vitamin got D in it but you cannot see how much D actually in my own breast milk. Kind of like blindfolded.

For dogs,for example, you do not want to give D via supplement like cod liver oil because it is way easier to overdose the D than getting Vit D from food source naturally.

The dog can get D from fish like salmon,mackerel,liver,egg,sunlight etc.. Beef heart is good source of A&D also.

In general, back home in Japan, we do not take supplement as much as people here do.

Day 115..

I had a good conversation with Liam.Today, he was holding his tongue by his lips and staring at me so, I talked back by sticking out my tongue slowly and then quickly hid my tongue inside;peak a boo tongue version.

He liked it and gave me a big smile and tried to mimic me and he stick his tongue out although he did not hide it as I did.

He likes peak a boo play with me,my version;me covering his eyes and move my hand away so he can see my face instead of covering my face and hands away:-)

So far, we are practicing rolling over.He has a bit more to go especially when he got his hands stuck underneath his belly/chest,but he is getting there.

He gets his hands out and pause like showing plane on the exercise mat.More for him to think;put his hands on the mat and head up for that.

At night, after the milk time and bonding time, I have put him in the bassinet,and I put the makeshift gym over his bed so he can play with it.

He was first talking to himself but started playing the gym then fell asleep.

He is looking like an angel:-)

He can take 150ml milk now.That is when he gets before bed,and very first thing in the morning.

I cannot believe that this little guy was having poor feeding when he was born.

I still remember we were telling the nurse “he took 10ml, 20ml” etc.. and had time he had to be fed via feed tube.

Day 117..

Tired and sleepy (exhausted);spent busy day yesterday and lots of things done to welcome visitors…

They will be coming in a few and hope I have energy to entertaining them (make sweet dumplings and rice pancake together). And I hope they like the dish I prepped this morning,cut veg last night…

Good thing that I did most of prep yesterday or I would have no energy to cook.

I have no energy to read newspaper either.

I had 3 hours sleep and did pump and then back to bed and woke up 2 hours later to feed Liam and I am up since 6:30am or so;had 5 hours nap total.

Liam is sleeping nicely,and I am sure Palette would wake him up when the visitors coming.

Day 118..

Last night,Liam’s aunt and I made sweet Japanese dumplings and everyone liked it.You can find the recipe here at the link here.

I need to fix the font and broken pictures but you can see the recipe there.

Liam also had whale tub bath with his aunt and I at his side.Since she is working for hospital dealing with babies,I thought I would ask her about proper bath step and,I think I got it ok.

Only part I need to be sure is that I maybe should wear terry mitten or something to pick him up from the tub from side of our tub so I would not drop him because he might be slippery on bare hand.

She was laughing about all the gadget we got like gator temperature meter thingy,arm pad ,whale knee pad etc.. but that is what happen when you do not have experience with babies.

I simply went through website of our fav baby store and read review carefully and picked the best reviewed one and I read the products detail and decided which one to take.

As you noticed, Liam’s bathing time is whale theme.

Liam’s whale tub..Liam now 3 years old cannot fit in this anymore..

I really did not want to get sick because I may get Liam sick,but I feel like I am coming down with cold… Not coughing,just scratchy throat etc…

I was gargling every time I go outside but, it was cold yesterday outside when I took Palette out and with the assumption she will potty soon,I did not wear jacket, and visitors were coughing so,I might have needed more vigorous gargling…

I took tynol cold which OBGYN said ok to take for cold while breastfeeding.Hope it makes me feel better.

I go bed early tonight…

Day 119..

Yesterday morning, our visitor had left and, my sister in law asked me where Liam is.

She asked me because it was quiet, and his bassinet was not in the living room yet.

I told her that he is still sleeping and also added that he sleeps 7-10 hours during the night.

She and her husband was surprised to hear that.

I then said that he will be crying or wiggling around 7-10 am.

Sure enough, he was up at about 10 am or so and he was the last one in the family to be up.

I am happy Liam can sleep through the night now.

Day 120..

Just finished breastfeeding Liam directly.He is a pro now.Back in July,when he was born, he did not know what to do and he even could not suck once but now, he goes on town for longer minutes.

In fact, he was on me 28 min total (one side 12 min,the other 16 min) and he was placing his one hand over his eyes and literally started sleeping at the end.

When I finished one side of breast and burp him and turned his head to the other so he can suck the other side of my breast, even before I place my hand under my breast to hold, Liam found the supply spot and started sucking on his own,lol.

He knows where the milk is coming from very well.

I find that direct breastfeeding has some sort of special feeling between Liam and I. I enjoy breastfeeding him and see him get milk drunk with milk drop on his cheek:-)
Stay tuned for more Liam’s story.

Mar 10, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note:Liam’s first year:Day 109 – Day 114

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 110..

4 m in the morning after drinking 140ml milk, he is so awake and active!

Those days, I was up every 3 hours or so.I was like zombie even if I try to nap when Liam was closing his eyes although it did help some.

Liam Day 110…

Day 111..

My husband made a makeshift gym for Liam. He loves that. He talks to himself and bang at it:-)

The green toy is from my father in Japan and we did not have the link so,I used my hair string thingy but apparently, he bangs it too hard enough for it to fall.He kept going,going because he loves this makeshift toy:-)

Liam Day 111..

On the same day at night, he saw his grandmother/grandfather living in Japan over the skype. He was so quiet,staring at the skype screen. Looked so intrigued.

When I was doing skype,I sent them a video showing how he was playing with make shift gym. Mom said that “oh,he is moving so much.It is good to prevent him getting constipated because of lots of arms and legs movement”. It was funny comment. He really loves the makeshift baby gym.

I don’t get bored looking at him,lol. Always interesting to see how he grows.I have measured him at home today and he was wearing diaper,clothe but weighed 11.5lb, 55cm tall.Growing and getting heavier each day.

Day 114..

Question to moms; Did you give Vit D supplement to your little one when they were little?

Here in the states, even in the Mayo clinic book,it says that breast milk is low in Vit D, so when you feed more breast milk than formula, you need to give Vit D.

Our pediatrician said to us the same.

She said to give Vit D if you feed breast milk more than half a day,if all day formula,no need to give.

I was giving the supplement but noticed that Visol D,which pediatrician recommended is full of artificial stuff like artificial coloring, artificial flavor

(ingredients; Glycerin, Water, Polysorbate 80, Citric Acid, Vitamin D3, Sodium Citrate, Sodium Hydroxide, Artificial Flavor and Artificial Caramel Color. )

and I did not like the idea to give artificial stuff so I stopped giving it to Liam.

The reason I asked above is because my sister raised all of her kids (4 kids) without any added supplement in Japan. Just simply feeding breast milk,no supplement and the pediatrician there is ok with it.

I wonder if Japanese kids eat more fish than kids in the states when they get older and giving D is not necessary when they are little there ?? (Since when they are older, they are more likely eat the fish)

Or, they play more outside the house than kids here in USA thus they get more D via sun light??

Overall, even for adults, it looks like more common for people to take supplement than those in Japan.

Stay tuned for more Liam’s story.

Feb 25, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note:Liam’s first year Day 104- day 108

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 104..

I noticed Liam stops crying when he seems me:-)

This morning, my husband said that he was tracking “me” when I moved away from the spot near him to the fridge to go get the red pepper I was trying to work with his tracking practice (object tracking by eyes).

Felt so good to hear that.

Liam feel mama is calming person to him?Hmm

Liam’s foot 103 days old….

When I first passed by him and saw it ,it looked like he had 3 foot!

Day 105..

Had looong day today.

Went to hospital and grocery shopping and had to stop by baby store to feed him and diaper change.I am tired..

At the baby store, we found that little price was working on something and yes,it was poop blow out!

Good thing that I had clothe along with bibs for just in case I can simply go to bathroom,wet it and wipe the butt before using the wet wipe for easy cleaning.

We cleaned his butt real good and changed his diaper and fed him at the feeding room there.It is real nice store got such room for us mom&dad.

Then, even though clothe was not messed with stain, we decided to change him into new clothe and I realized that all the clothe I put in my diaper bag was newborn size.

He could wear it like 2 weeks ago but apparently, not anymore.He looked like.. wearing spanx-like clothe (tight especially length).He was uncomfortable and cried out loud.

So, we got him one new clothe there 3 months size, and he was happy then.

Note to myself; make sure to put the current size of clothe. I need to make sure of that.

Day 108..

I still need to practice how to put Liam in the Ergo 360 carrier but,I like them!I like how it support Liam,and I do not feel like he is so heavy when the weigh is supported by carrier like that.

My husband was working on the door yesterday and it was so loud noise that he could not sleep then I guess.I had to hold him to let him be comfy and.not crying loud.

I was holding him without carrier but decided to use the carrier and that way,I can walk around the house and he can look around if he wanted to.

At first, he was crying but soon, he decided that snoozing in the carrier was much comfier than looking around.So, he spent some Kangaroo time with me yesterday:-)

He is currently peacefully sleeping behind me. We had long ground time after milk time:-) We did a lot.I like when he smile big,having fun with me:)

Liam in Ergo 360 Day 108..

Stay tuned for more Liam story.

Feb 19, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note: Liam’s first year Day 98- Day 103

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 99..

Ahh,the poop blow out,lol.

I was planning to bathe Liam, and he gave me the blow out diaper just right before the planned bathing time.

Can he read my mind???

Good thing with Liam these days for the bathing time is that, he does not cry at all.He simply stare at me singing,talking made up bath song and, he is in the water quietly:-)

The small tub started getting a little small for him so, maybe he would graduate to whale tub we got while I was a pregnant.

Liam’s Whale tub…

As for bringing neck up as high as he can and stay hold that position, he now can do much longer than before. Practice makes perfect!

He can hold his head quite long these days on tummy time.. like 270 seconds. I feel he has more support on his neck/head.

Day 101..

Liam slept for about 10 hours since last night.It was so long that I was tempted to wake him up,but before I actually do so, he woke himself up.

So, I gave him large amount of milk;140ml.You would think that he would be milk drunk but nope, he was super active this morning (milk high?Lol).

Of course, after the video, he fell asleep for ..maybe another 2 – 3 hours until next milk time.

I am amazed how much he can move after such a large amount of milk in his tummy,lol.

Liam 101 days old..

This smile brighten up my day every day:-)

Day 102..

One little smile makes everything perfect!That handsome man slept 9 hours and had another 140ml milk and deep sleeping:-)

BUT before putting him on his bed, he was again doing his own aerobics on the floor with his singing eh.ah.uh…lol.

I am wondering when babies can see things clearly.

The reason why I wondered about it was that,last night,I was holding him and I saw his head coming toward me a little by little and his mouth was wide opened.

I did not think much then but I found myself my nose was being sucked by Liam:-)

So, told him message well received and went on to milk time.That time, I fed him without tear coming out from his eyes before the milk time.

Sometimes,when he is being burped,he likes to nibble my side of hand; in between second finger and thumb.

Day 103..

I measured his height and he is 55″ tall. He was 53″ on September’s pediatrician  visit He is growing:-)

I knew that my days will be very different from the life without Liam, but I feel motherly instinct is really taking over my thoughts a lot lately.

Lots of things that I wants him to do.. like want to help him eat better when older, lots of things that I do not adults around him to do or want adults to do like no talk on what food they hates (be a better model for the eating) or good hand washing before meal..

Some stuff might be cultural difference but still, I am amazed how much thoughts I can have concerning with our little handsome boy “Liam”.

He sure is the rock and love of my life besides my husband.

These days, I am trying to let Liam practice following object with his eyes, but I had not been so much success;when I thought he was looking at it to follow, I soon loose his attention of his eyes ..

So, I was talking about that to my mother and she said babies can see red or bright bald color better.So, I tried with red pepper this morning.I know it sound silly but tried.

I think it might be working although he does not follow it long time, but better progress on the time he looks at it to follow.

I will be practicing following object stuff with red pepper from now on unless I get to find something bright red that ..maybe make sound like chime.

Lots of stuff to work with Liam!

He now can hold his head for.. wait for it.. 300 seconds!

Liam is sleeping soundly after breast milk was fed.

He had.. 14 minutes one side, 16 minutes the other side and has supplemental breast milk 80 ml.

Last night, when I was holding him, he started head shaking onto my clothe and tried to nibble that breast area through the clothe,lol.Told him,ok, milk time and fed him.

He is a funny little man.

Stay tuned for more Liam’s story.

Feb 05, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note:Liam’s first year:Day 92-Day 97

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 94..

Liam started stir and then crying and I remembered the youtube video of decoding baby cry

Decoding baby cry..

I listened to his cry very carefully and tried diaper change (he had his milk not too long ago so,I thought it was something else or simply got hungry again).

Once I started trying to change his diaper, he was laying on the bed calmly and let me change his diaper and got quiet down:-)

Did I do what he wanted me to do? I hope I did, but not sure.

Day 95..

I am happy to report that Liam has been doing great job on head up exercise on tummy time;he be on his tummy and hold his head up and stay.

Since he does not go down after one second,I have been counting and today, he kept his head up for 200 seconds!!

Maybe his head/neck might become stable soon???

He is happily sucking his pacifier after the short nap, and talking to himself .

Oops,he started crying for help;missing pacifier??

Just passed 7pm, Liam has just finished another tummy time exercise,and held his head for 260!! I am getting tired counting,lol.

Day 97..

Liam is getting pro for breast feeding. Today, he spent 20 min on one, 13 min on the other and by the time of last burp time, his eyes were already closed (although I could see his white parts of the eye a bit) but head down on my shoulder and started Zzzzzzzzz…

Must have been such a hard work to eat,lol.

Our pediatrician told us to give him supplemental dose of milk to make sure he is getting what he needs;after the each breast feeding time give 60ml of milk,I was told.

So, I was debated if I just simply cuddle then and let him snooze a bit and give him the milk more.

Well,I decided to let him decide so, I prepared 70ml (when 60ml, in the past, he seemed wanted more) and tried to give him.

His eyes were wide open, flapping his hands with wide open mouth as if to say “Hurry up,I can drink more!”

So, I gave him that 70 ml milk.He then gave me a big man burp after that.

He is now peacefully back to sleeping… Zzzzzzz

Liam Day 97 in the swing..

I was reading mayo clinic book (I read it like a textbook because I know nothing and want to study on them) and amazing thing I read today is that, babies can distinguish mother’s breast milk from other baby’s mom’s breast milk because of sensory skill.

I was surprised. Wonder if Liam could do blind tasting and pick my breast milk from the bunch,lol

Stay tuned for more Liam’s story..

Jan 30, 2018 | 0 | parenting

Yassy’s note:Liam’s first year:Day 89- Day 91

In the previous entry titled “Yassy’s note: Liam in NICU;day 8- day 14“, I wrote Liam came to our family about 3 weeks early (36 weeks and 2 days) and he has spent next 3 weeks in NICU.

He was tiny little baby; 18″ tall, weighing 5 lb 6 oz…

Day 90…. Liam has been doing tummy time exercise everyday; a couple of times a day, and he seems to be able to hold his head higher,longer than before.

Longest time he hold his head high is 124 seconds so far. This is something he does good on.

I was reading Mayo clinic book that I got to learn more about baby care (Liam slept better during daytime on the day 90),and it mentioned that the babies who does tummy time tend to crawl,,roll over, and sit up earlier than the ones who does not get to do the tummy time exercise.

I do not know if it is true or not but, when I try to set him up for tummy time exercise and let him be on his tummy,he did not need much push from me anymore.

I still did gently help him roll onto his tummy but he is on his tummy mostly on his own.

Maybe he will roll over soon,much sooner than 6 months old time…

Anther big thing might be that he has got a huge balance ball and he did ball exercise with me.

He enjoyed tummy massage after that. Side of his body seems to make him feel tickle and he twitches and he is so cute!

Worth the wait for 10 long years… Really, impossible dream made possible:-)

Day 91..

When pacifier is not near, Liam has figured out that he could suck on his hand. If not, suck my hands while trying to burp him at milk time:-)

Since he started putting his hands in his mouth, I am wiping his hands and drooly face all the time.

This also means that I have to make sure that all the family members and visitors wash their hands thoroughly so whatever they touch would not be transferred to his hands and to his mouth.

Maybe I should put “Liam’s law” on his crib side:-)

Liam day 91 years old.. fingers in mouth..

Liam liked talking to himself softly like eh,eh. Sometimes, it sounds like saying “hi”.

He likes to talk after his milk time.He burped like a man,lol.

Day 92..

Liam has breast fed, and in the middle of being fed, he fell asleep with the milk drop on his cheek,lol.

So precious looking but since I could not move,I did not get to take a picture of it.

After a while, he woke up,wiggling so,I put him on my chest facing toward me and he went to deep sleep ZZZZZZ

Then, another hour later or so, he cried out loud and had another milk and he was content,making sound eh,eh and flapping hands looking around,yawn… in his crib.

He has been active ..

When he started liking pacifier, we got him wubba pacifier,the one with stuffed animal on it.

He can hold it while sucking but he has not being able to grab and bring it to his mouth yet.

He can suck his finger though.. When he loose the pacifier,he cries…….He tries to search with his mouth but not yet with hands..

Bath time came..

He used to cry out loud like screaming cat,but now, I let him hold my body and talk to him whole time singing jabu jabu jabu (Japanese) with made up tone and he has being quiet:-)

I think having something to hold onto might have made him feeling more secure and I can bath him alone,without my husband’s help:-)

Anyway, just about being ready to bath him, he started turning his face red,which I now know that he is working on something from rear end..

He did that for a couple of times and heard some wet sound and, yes, I knew poop was coming out. So, I waited out a bit and then, I peeked through the diaper first.

Wow, it got so much in it and he was still producing green tooth paste texture poop….

I have cleaned his rear end nice and clean first and then bathed him.He should be feeling clean and fresh.

Even if I did not plan to bathe him today, he needed one after the big poop time.

After the bathing time, he drunk his favorite mama’s milk and took a bit of nap.

However, he was already up talking eh..eh.. ehh..

Feeling more milk time coming on his way soon:)

Milk time came..

He burped like a man, real real big one.

I was happy (not sure why I get satisfaction out of his burp but I do,lol) and realized that he missed the whole burp cloth spot and burped onto my shirt,lol.

I wore burp cloth big enough space but guess he needed more:-)

And… we got size 1 diaper, graduating from newborn size one.

When we visited baby store on the day 91, we got him elephant wubba (pacifier with elephant on it).

We got 2 already (dog and monkey one) but last time we visited hospital, on the way to the hospital,we realized we forgot pacifier to bring and had to turn around to home to get it because he needs it to calm down.

So, we decided to get the 3rd one and keep it in my diaper bag so we know we always have one whenever we go and no more missing soother.

Stay tuned for more Liam’s story.

Jan 10, 2018 | 0 | parenting